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About Kelly

Kelly Meier, Certified Parent Effectiveness Training Instructor and Parent Coach in San Diego, CA
Kelly Meier, P.E.T Instructor

Hi, I’m Kelly, I am a mom, Certified Parent Effectiveness Training Instructor and Parent Coach in San Diego, CA. I help parents find the balance in parenting.

I began my career as a corporate event planner, Sales Trainer and Director of Franchise Development. Becoming a mother inspired me to slow down my busy life and stay home with my children. It was around the time my second child was born that I realized my oldest needed help adapting to this change in his life. I sought out help and found it from Lisa Sunbury Gerber, Regarding Baby and Janet Lansbury, Elevating Child Care, who eventually became my friends and mentors and inspired me to explore my gift of relating to children.

These women who are teachers of the RIE philosophy of respectful parenting founded by Magda Gerber, guided me to see my children in a new way and I became fascinated with watching them grow. It was on this path that I eventually found Parent Effectiveness Training and continued to learn how to raise children who not only trust me but whom I also trust.

Children come in all varieties of temperaments and my knack for relating to even the strongest of wills allows me to see all children, as a capable, whole people and in turn helps me guide their parents to begin to see them in a less challenging way. I have found my passion and my purpose in teaching others how to raise thoughtful, self-aware, and independent people. I hope you will come learn with me and take some of the “hard” out of parenting.

The Evolution of Respectful Parent

In 2012, a group us who closely followed Janet Lansbury formed a small forum on Facebook as a way to support each other in parenting respectfully. Our group was made up of 20 diverse women from all over the world. Together we started the blog that is today Respectful Parent. The earlier entries of the blog feature contributions from all of us. The founder and designer of the blog, Dawn Pedersen, eventually handed over management of it to Kelly as our children grew and her focus changed. The women behind Respectful Parent continue to keep in touch and support one another. Although the blog has evolved, its origins remain important. Special thanks to all the wonderful ladies who made this site possible and continue to be a sounding board.

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Daily Parenting Inspiration

I wanted to do a little intro. After 10 years of I wanted to do a little intro.

After 10 years of teaching Parent Effectiveness Training, I started teaching Leader Effectiveness Training. Why? Well… my kids are getting older, I was ready for something new, and with my background in sales training, it felt like a natural fit. It's the same model, just applied differently.

But there was another realization along the way: Parenting is leadership.

And sometimes leadership can feel a lot like parenting. Am I right? (HR - I'm looking at you! 😉)

Different setting. Same challenges. Big emotions, crossed wires, and conflicts that somehow take over everyone’s day.

That’s what led me to Leader Effectiveness Training. Because dynamic leaders aren’t born extroverts or big personalities, they’re skilled listeners, calm problem-solvers, and quiet conflict ninjas who help people actually work better together.

When people work well together, there's less friction, way more progress, and A LOT less drama. Doesn't that sound like a place you want to be?

I'm happy to announce my next online course, so your Friday can start off FUN. CUZ honestly, I'm pretty fun!

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Day 8 of 12: Labels like “dramatic” or “know-it-al Day 8 of 12: Labels like “dramatic” or “know-it-all” can shut down a conversation instantly—even when they’re said casually. What labels have you seen quietly derail communication at work?

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7/2- Even praise can miss the mark. Today’s roadb 7/2- Even praise can miss the mark.

Today’s roadblock—Praising & Agreeing—sounds positive, but vague approval can create pressure, doubt, or confusion instead of confidence. The fix is simple: Describe what you saw (or heard) and the impact it had on you and maybe even how impressed you were. Now people know exactly what it was they did well instead of a broad generalization, and that feels much better! 

**Bonus** it also gets you more of the same because now they know exactly what to do again. No guesswork.

#leadershipdevelopment #leadereffectivenesstraining #peopleskills #communicationskills #leadershipclasses
Here I go! My first class of the year! Maybe you a Here I go! My first class of the year! Maybe you are recovering from big changes, bracing for them, or just need a little communication pep in your step. I got you.

I can help you lead in a way people actually want to stay.

Too many workplaces are stuck in command‑and‑control mode — facts, logic, orders, and power. But real leadership is about connection, clarity, and collaboration — the skills that keep people engaged, satisfied, and committed.🔥

That’s exactly what Leader Effectiveness Training helps you do — talk less at people and more with them, solve conflict with confidence, and build a culture where people feel heard, trusted, and motivated to give their best. 

If you want communication that doesn’t just “get results” but creates a workplace people want to stay in, this is the kind of training that actually changes how you lead — no buzzwords, no ego, just real skills you use every day. Plus you can add some SHRM credits to your belt, if that's your jam.

Bonus that I run a SUPER FUN class! Of course, I do! Nobody wants boring.

🗓️February 6th – March 13th
🎉Six Fun-Filled Friday Mornings
⌚9:00 am – 12:00 pm PACIFIC TIME

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Take it from me, take it with Meike, just take it. Take it from me, take it with Meike, just take it. It’ll spare you from at least half of your future face-palms.” 🤦‍♀️

#leadereffectivenesstraining #communicationclasses #leadershipclasses #collaborationtraining #workingtogethermakesusbetter
Day 4 of 12 - Leadership isn’t about having the fa Day 4 of 12 - Leadership isn’t about having the fastest solution. It’s about creating space for people to think.
Today’s roadblock shows how rushing to fix can quietly shut down communication instead of letting it flow. Do you catch yourself doing it? It's hard to stop, isn't it?!

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#personaldevlopment #shrm
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