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Nice Things People Say

This class has been a relationship saver for my family. I now try to solve problems together instead of doing it myself and forcing it on my family.

Heather, Mom of a teenager

Kelly has a knack for coming up with the right explanation that brings clear understanding to complex ideas. She “gets” parenting and it shines through in her class. It’s one thing to understand something, it’s another to successfully integrate into your life. This class was able to do that for me.

Maryann Jacobsen, Mom of two, Co-author – Fearless Feeding: How to Raise Healthy Eaters from Highchair to High school

Some of the simplest things Kelly taught in class have helped my kids talk to me so much more. I have found it to be an amazing experience to stop correcting or teaching, and to just listen to my children. And when I do so the more our relationships improves, and they are happier and more trusting.

Ralph, Dad of 6 year old and 3 year old, Law Enforcement and Retired Navy Reserves

I have had several personal coaching sessions with Kelly and I am now able to understand what is going on with my kids so much better. I always thought they struggled with empathy, but once I was able to start listening to them differently, I saw it was there all along. Kelly’s delivery and sense of humor make you feel like you’re talking to an old friend, even when she’s helping you with your blind spots.

Stacey, Mom of two, ages 11 and 3, 2 time Olympic Gold Medalist, Division I Women’s Softball Coach

I learned more in just a few hours of PET training with Kelly than I did taking an entire Redirecting Children’s Behavior (RCB) parenting course! The methods are particularly well-suited to meet the challenges of parenting gifted children. Their sensitive and highly perceptive natures respond well to this positive and respectful approach to parenting.

Mary Ann Hawke Ph.D., Chair, GATE District Advisory Committee, San Diego Unified School District

My husband and I took the parenting class taught by Kelly Meier and we wholeheartedly recommend it to everyone we know. Kelly’s respect for children is so sincere and palpable… it gives me chills to talk about. I look forward to her future classes.

Amy, mom of  two, 7 yrs and 3 yrs

I met Kelly at our children’s school. She’s a wealth of knowledge and I love the honest and direct (yet empathetic and loving) way she communicates with her own children.

Brianna, Mom of three, Owner Wonderful & Wild Natural Parenting Store

I know this may seems like a simple principle, but it was diving much deeper into this philosophy that was a major take-away for me in Kelly’s class. The idea that some “problems” are things that I need to own was really a breakthrough. I know that using Kelly’s active listening techniques from P.E.T. work. It’s not parroting key gentle parenting phrases like things I have learned in the past either. It’s really listening to understand, which as it turns out is a pretty rad two-way street with my child. I wish I could carry Kelly in my pocket everywhere and can’t wait to take the next class in the series.

Tiffany, Mom of 6 year old

In the past few weeks, both boys are asking for more family time because they want to be together. To me, that is a perfect illustration of harmony. The very thing I set out to obtain.

Kelly, Mom of two ages 10 and 7, Parent Association President, C.P.A.

Kelly is very open and real, she brought examples and stories to teach and she modeled the skills in class constantly. This course helped open my eyes to how to listen, which has completely changed my relationship with my kids.

N, step-parent of two, 7yrs and 9yrs

After our consult, I just can’t believe how well he is responding. It’s like he is saying, “FINALLY YOU GET IT – THIS IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR!”

H. Mom of 2 year old and 4 year old

“You know I’ve had calls with other parent coaches, and they all told me I needed to be ‘more’ or ‘less’ *something*. You just listened to me and you helped me see how I can get what I need by just being who I am with my kids. I don’t need to change and that’s so freeing.”

S, mom of 7 year old and 3 year old - Attorney

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Daily Parenting Inspiration

I wanted to do a little intro. After 10 years of I wanted to do a little intro.

After 10 years of teaching Parent Effectiveness Training, I started teaching Leader Effectiveness Training. Why? Well… my kids are getting older, I was ready for something new, and with my background in sales training, it felt like a natural fit. It's the same model, just applied differently.

But there was another realization along the way: Parenting is leadership.

And sometimes leadership can feel a lot like parenting. Am I right? (HR - I'm looking at you! 😉)

Different setting. Same challenges. Big emotions, crossed wires, and conflicts that somehow take over everyone’s day.

That’s what led me to Leader Effectiveness Training. Because dynamic leaders aren’t born extroverts or big personalities, they’re skilled listeners, calm problem-solvers, and quiet conflict ninjas who help people actually work better together.

When people work well together, there's less friction, way more progress, and A LOT less drama. Doesn't that sound like a place you want to be?

I'm happy to announce my next online course, so your Friday can start off FUN. CUZ honestly, I'm pretty fun!

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Day 8 of 12: Labels like “dramatic” or “know-it-al Day 8 of 12: Labels like “dramatic” or “know-it-all” can shut down a conversation instantly—even when they’re said casually. What labels have you seen quietly derail communication at work?

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7/2- Even praise can miss the mark. Today’s roadb 7/2- Even praise can miss the mark.

Today’s roadblock—Praising & Agreeing—sounds positive, but vague approval can create pressure, doubt, or confusion instead of confidence. The fix is simple: Describe what you saw (or heard) and the impact it had on you and maybe even how impressed you were. Now people know exactly what it was they did well instead of a broad generalization, and that feels much better! 

**Bonus** it also gets you more of the same because now they know exactly what to do again. No guesswork.

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Here I go! My first class of the year! Maybe you a Here I go! My first class of the year! Maybe you are recovering from big changes, bracing for them, or just need a little communication pep in your step. I got you.

I can help you lead in a way people actually want to stay.

Too many workplaces are stuck in command‑and‑control mode — facts, logic, orders, and power. But real leadership is about connection, clarity, and collaboration — the skills that keep people engaged, satisfied, and committed.🔥

That’s exactly what Leader Effectiveness Training helps you do — talk less at people and more with them, solve conflict with confidence, and build a culture where people feel heard, trusted, and motivated to give their best. 

If you want communication that doesn’t just “get results” but creates a workplace people want to stay in, this is the kind of training that actually changes how you lead — no buzzwords, no ego, just real skills you use every day. Plus you can add some SHRM credits to your belt, if that's your jam.

Bonus that I run a SUPER FUN class! Of course, I do! Nobody wants boring.

🗓️February 6th – March 13th
🎉Six Fun-Filled Friday Mornings
⌚9:00 am – 12:00 pm PACIFIC TIME

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Take it from me, take it with Meike, just take it. Take it from me, take it with Meike, just take it. It’ll spare you from at least half of your future face-palms.” 🤦‍♀️

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Day 4 of 12 - Leadership isn’t about having the fa Day 4 of 12 - Leadership isn’t about having the fastest solution. It’s about creating space for people to think.
Today’s roadblock shows how rushing to fix can quietly shut down communication instead of letting it flow. Do you catch yourself doing it? It's hard to stop, isn't it?!

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#personaldevlopment #shrm
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