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September said, “Fresh start!” Your calendar said September said, “Fresh start!”

Your calendar said, “Good luck with that.” 😅

New school routines. New teachers. Homework. Sports. Activities. Meetings. Somewhere between the first day of school and October, everyone seems to be running at full speed.

But here's the thing: transitions take energy.

So maybe your family doesn't need a better schedule right now.

Maybe you need a slower one.

Leave some space. Protect some downtime. Pay attention to how everyone is adjusting.

Because sometimes the best way to survive a busy season isn't figuring out how to do more. It's deciding what doesn't need to happen right now.

💛 I wrote more about why September is harder than we expect and how families can make the transition a little easier.

👉 Read the full blog post in comments

#backtoschool #busyschedules #slowingdown #parenteffectivenesstraining
My youngest finished 8th grade yesterday; my oldes My youngest finished 8th grade yesterday; my oldest will be a senior, and that has me feeling lots of things!

 Here are my thoughts:
My job as a parent is changing.
One child is about to become a senior in high school, and the other is starting high school, and somewhere along the way, I crossed into a whole new phase of parenting: preparing my kids for adulthood.

These days, parenting feels less like managing every detail and more like slowly stepping back so they can learn to manage their own lives. Which sounds beautiful and inspiring until you’re sitting in the passenger seat while your teenager says, “I got it,” approaching a yellow light. 😵‍💫

We’ve entered the season of job applications, making appointments, missed alarms, learning lessons the hard way, and me trying very hard not to immediately swoop in.

And honestly? It’s emotional.
Because while they’re becoming more independent, I’m also realizing I get to start thinking about what’s next for me too. My goals, my work, my marriage, my next chapter.
This phase feels a little like letting go with one hand while reaching forward with the other. 

I get to just be their friend a lot more while making sure they'll be a good roommate and spouse in the near future.

I'm close to working myself out of job and I honestly think I'm ready for it!

#parentingteens #parenteffectivenesstraining #growingupfast
“My child is not giving me a hard time… my child i “My child is not giving me a hard time…
my child is having a hard time.”

That one shift changes everything.

Less: “Why are they doing this?”
More: “What’s going on for them?”

Hard behavior is often just… hard feelings.

When we see the struggle,
we respond differently.

Less reacting.
More supporting. 💛 #respectfulparent #sandiegomoms #parenteffectivenesstraining #attachmentparenting #rie #PositiveParenting #parentingtips #DefianceOrMisunderstanding
“I didn’t say it was your fault… I said I blame yo “I didn’t say it was your fault…
I said I blame you.” 😅

When kids blame, it feels personal.

But it’s usually not about being right…
it’s about letting out big feelings.

Blame =
“I’m frustrated.”
“I’m overwhelmed.”

Before correcting, try connecting:

“You’re really upset.”
“That was hard.”

Less defending.
More understanding. 💛
“Children do well when they can.” So when they’re “Children do well when they can.”

So when they’re not…
It’s not about won’t.
It’s about can’t (yet).

Less: “Why are they acting like this?”
More: “What’s getting in their way?”

Skills take time.
Emotions get big.
Brains get overwhelmed.

And in those moments,
they don’t need perfection…

They need curiosity - not furiosity. 😋💛

Yup, I made up a word.

#respectfulparent #childrendowellwhentheycan #drrossgreen #parenteffectivenesstraining
End of school = chaos… Then suddenly… no structure End of school = chaos…
Then suddenly… no structure 😅

Or camp… to camp… to camp.

Summer is fun ☀️
But it can also mean:
more pushback
more “I’m bored”
more sibling stuff
more BIG feelings

And when routines change, behavior usually does too.

The good news?
You don’t need more control… you need better tools.

✨ listen without shutting them down
✨ set limits without the battles
✨ handle big emotions (theirs + yours)

Less surviving
More thriving

My summer Parent Effectiveness Training class is coming up 💛
Drop a ☀️ and I’ll send details!

 #respectfulparent #sandiegomoms #parentingtips #parentingmiddleschoolers #PositiveParenting #attachmentparenting #rie #parenteffectivenesstraining #RespectfulParenting
Oof. This is a hard one sometimes! Share your exam Oof. This is a hard one sometimes! Share your examples of a time this happened 🙏🏼🙈
I'm just reading the book "Untangled -Guiding Teen I'm just reading the book "Untangled -Guiding Teenage Girls Through The Seven Transitions into Adulthood" by @lisa.damour ,  and I love it. This one struck a chord with me so I thought I'd share. It's from the section "The Pull of Popular."

What does “popular” actually mean?

Because when you look a little closer, the kids who seem the most “popular” aren’t always the most liked. Sometimes, their influence comes from social power, not genuine connection. And that can come with a lot of pressure—on everyone.

This can be a powerful conversation to have with your child.

Not in a lecture-y way, but with curiosity:
“Do kids actually like being around her, or are they worried about being on her bad side?”
“What makes a friendship feel good to you?”

Helping kids think beyond popularity and toward the quality of their friendships gives them something much steadier to stand on.

Because in the long run, feeling safe, accepted, and able to be yourself matters a whole lot more than being “popular" and then you may just hit that sweet spot of being "popular" because you are well liked!

 #parentingtips #sandiegomoms #respectfulparent #raisingteenagegirls #parentingmiddleschoolgirls
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